- La Tanya Walker
- Nov 3
- 3 min read

There’s a quiet moment between what’s ending and what’s about to begin. It’s not quite harvest and not yet renewal. It’s that sacred in-between, the space between seasons—where everything feels both full and unfinished.
Most of us don’t linger here long. We rush toward the next thing, convincing ourselves that progress requires motion. But the truth is, becoming takes time. The most transformative growth often happens in the pause between what was and what will be.
When Transition Feels Unsettling
Transitions shake our familiar rhythms. Even positive change asks us to release what we’ve known. The loss of the familiar, the uncertainty of what’s next, and the shift in who we’ve been can create emotional whiplash.
As women who lead, whether in ministry, the marketplace, or both, these seasons can feel heavier. We’re used to being steady for others, so when life stretches or shifts, it can challenge our identity and sense of direction.
But it’s normal to feel in-between. The old season doesn’t fit anymore, and the new one hasn’t fully formed. That space isn’t failure; it’s formation.
What to Do in the In-Between: Practical Ways to Navigate Life’s Transitions
Give Yourself Permission to Feel. Transitions stir up emotion—grief, hope, joy, fatigue. Feel them without judgment. Emotional honesty is spiritual maturity.
Name What’s Ending and Beginning. Ask yourself: What am I letting go of? What am I stepping into? Naming both helps you honor what’s closing and embrace what’s emerging.
Stay Connected to Who You Are. You are more than your roles. When titles or routines shift, stay anchored in your core values, faith, and strengths.
Create Daily Anchors. Small rhythms restore balance. Begin your day with prayer or intention setting. Take mindful breaks. End your day by writing three wins—big or small. These simple acts create stability when everything else feels uncertain.
Lean on Support Systems. Change isn’t meant to be carried alone. Reach out to mentors, friends, or your counselor. You don’t need to navigate transition in isolation.
Faith in the Middle Space
The Bible is full of transition stories to help us navigate life's transitions, Abraham’s journey, Esther’s elevation, Paul’s transformation. Every one of them had an in-between season filled with questions, adjustments, and quiet preparation.
God’s Word reminds us:
“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” — Ecclesiastes 3:1
Transition doesn’t mean you’ve lost direction, it often means God is repositioning you.
When Jesus withdrew to pray in moments of transition (Luke 5:16), it wasn’t retreat, it was renewal. He modeled what it means to find peace and clarity in solitude.
Grace, Not Guilt
Maybe this season is teaching you to move slower. Maybe it’s asking you to trust what you can’t yet see. Don’t rush the restoration.
Grace gives you permission to breathe while God rebuilds. Reflection allows your next “yes” to come from peace, not pressure.
Before you move forward, linger in this sacred pause. Let gratitude soften what’s ending. Let grace prepare what’s beginning.
Because in the space between seasons, you’re not standing still—you’re being shaped.
Growth in the Gentle Space
Grace doesn’t erase the hard parts of transition; it transforms how we walk through them. The in-between is where character is refined and clarity is born. It’s where God reminds us that slow progress is still progress.
Maybe this season is revealing that what used to feel urgent no longer fits. Maybe it’s showing you that peace and productivity can coexist, that rest and leadership are not opposites.
Growth in transition often looks like stillness that others mistake for uncertainty. But beneath the surface, strength is forming, quiet, resilient, and rooted.
When you stop measuring your worth by motion, you start to see that grace is not passive; it’s power held with patience. It’s the courage to let go without knowing what comes next, trusting that God’s timing is never late, only layered.
So breathe. Let grace do its slow, steady work. The same God who called you into this transition is faithful to carry you through it, not rushed, but refined.
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About La Tanya D. Walker

La Tanya D. Walker is a Clinical Mental Health Counselor, Leadership Coach, and Change Agent dedicated to helping high-performing women in ministry, business, and leadership cultivate emotional wellness, mental clarity, and purpose-driven success. Through Authentic Perspectives Counseling, she provides professional counseling, leadership development, and strategic mentorship to support personal and professional transformation.
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